Our Story: How We Did Everything Differently
This is our story about doing everything in our own way. From seeing the bride in her dress before the wedding, to choosing a unique location and deciding who would attend, we made each decision with intention. Rather than following tradition, we focused on creating a meaningful, low-stress experience filled with joy and love.
Jennifer and I had both been married before. Although we wanted to celebrate our union with friends, we didn’t want a traditional large wedding. On the other hand, we also knew a courthouse elopement or Las Vegas chapel wasn’t our style. Therefore, we created a plan that combined intimacy, fun, and a bit of surprise.
Planning Our Unique Wedding Celebration
To begin, we hosted a Christmas party with our closest friends. During the party, we casually mentioned that we’d be throwing more gatherings in the future—and everyone would be invited. This small detail helped lay the groundwork for what was to come.
In March, we sent out invitations to our “Spring Fling” party. Behind the scenes, however, Jennifer and I were planning something much more exciting—our wedding! We decided to hold the ceremony on our boat, the GoFish. Only a few would attend: Jennifer’s youngest son, my youngest son, the officiant, and the photographer.
Of course, we didn’t handle everything alone. We asked four close friends to help set up for the party before the rest of the guests arrived. These friends became an important part of our story, knowing exactly what we were planning.
We prepped some of the food ahead of time and scheduled the catered items to arrive one hour before the party. Additionally, we picked up the wedding cake and cupcakes the day before.
The Big Day: From Ceremony to Surprise
On the morning of the wedding, we woke up early. Jennifer headed to her hair and makeup appointment, while I prepared food and gathered our flowers. After picking up the bouquet and boutonnieres, I drove to the marina with Jennifer’s son.
At the boat, I set up three video cameras and arranged a group FaceTime with family members who couldn’t attend. When Jennifer arrived, she changed in a private marina restroom. Soon after, the officiant and my son joined us. By 12:45, the photographer began taking photos, capturing each moment.
Jennifer’s son walked her down the dock, and I met her at the boat. At exactly 1:00 p.m., we left the dock and headed to a special spot on the water for our ceremony.
Our Story Has All the Romance, None of the Drama
Our ceremony included prayers, words from our sons, personal and traditional vows, a sand ceremony, and a champagne toast. We also shared a first dance. Naturally, we tried to catch a fish together as a married couple! Although the tide and wind weren’t in our favor, we still cherished the attempt.
Later, the officiant and our sons gave us a private moment. We danced alone on the boat as the photographer took some of our most intimate photos.
While we returned to the marina, our friends were arriving at our home for the “Spring Fling” party. Everything was in place—food, drinks, and a warm welcome. Our four friends who were in on the surprise told everyone we were running an errand.
When we docked, one of our sons placed a decorated oar we had inscribed. Jennifer and I jumped the oar together, creating a new tradition that we hope to pass on.
Our Story: A Reception to Remember
When we walked into our home, we were announced as newlyweds. The room filled with surprised and delighted guests. Some suspected something was up, but most were completely shocked. Everyone raised a glass in a champagne toast and joined us as we cut the cake.
In short, we didn’t want our friends to feel pressured to dress up, bring gifts, or behave formally. We simply wanted them to enjoy the moment. Judging by their reactions, we succeeded.
From beginning to end, the day went off without a hitch. And even if something had gone wrong, we would have just rolled with it. After all, the focus wasn’t on perfection—it was on love.
We hope our story inspires you to think creatively when planning your micro wedding. Whether you want to surprise your guests or simply keep things simple, remember that your day should reflect who you are.
Let love lead the way.